tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2681156581281105989.post4650633802163066641..comments2023-06-29T08:06:50.539-04:00Comments on Brighter than a Buoy: Safe Sex in Three Easy StepsCarsie Blantonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16318678483832843479noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2681156581281105989.post-31964453182727671752014-03-10T04:51:21.140-04:002014-03-10T04:51:21.140-04:00manuel sitif makinası
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I particularly like section 2....Applause, applause!<br />I particularly like section 2. So many people equate "casual sex" with "meaningless sex," and they aren't the same at all.Margarethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15439577085786810412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2681156581281105989.post-8822881172738522112013-04-02T13:52:25.914-04:002013-04-02T13:52:25.914-04:00Why shouldn't the abortion question be "c...Why shouldn't the abortion question be "considered" by the boyfriend as well? The final decision can and should be in the woman's hands, but isn't it fair to include the potential father in the discussion? Shouldn't his emotional attachment to the unborn child count for something? I think a pregnant woman should absolutely include her partner in the decision-making process, even though at the end of the day it's going to have be her call.Jonashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03126707643985567630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2681156581281105989.post-40436408183947915452013-04-02T13:42:16.636-04:002013-04-02T13:42:16.636-04:00I remember older research showed vasectomies havin...I remember older research showed vasectomies having an alarmingly high failure rate but I dug around for some more current data and it seems that it's around 0.3-9% after 3-6 months (mostly due to the technique or experience of the surgeon) and down to 0.04-0.08% after 2 years. Interesting! (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2950776/)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2681156581281105989.post-75252974118210210392013-04-02T13:07:54.150-04:002013-04-02T13:07:54.150-04:00You rock, Carsie. Damn, wish this was the kind of...You rock, Carsie. Damn, wish this was the kind of sex ed kids got in school. The world would be a much better place.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com